Growing Pains

When do we ever really grow up? Is it the moment we choose someone else's happiness over our own or when we decide to focus on ourselves? Is it both? Is it when we let go of pettiness and anger and just forgive and move on or when we let out how we feel because we're not afraid anymore. Or, is it both? Maybe we're all just boys and girls who try to cope with the world and never really leave that place where we play and laugh and cry and love and hurt. But, we start to think and maybe a little too much. Because, it never really mattered what anyone else said or did for more than 5 seconds when all we cared about was being together.